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Then Read This!
Amber Says: " HI There!
Before you get started you must "WHITELIST" our website and email address so we can send you matches, and ALERTS when someone has responded or contacted you on "Minglelink.com".
I mean after all this is online dating and you have to be online to meet people - so naturally you want to hear about it when your special friends email you right? RIGHT! Thought this would make more sense:)
Whats "WHITELIST-ing" exactly... And how do I do it?
You want matches now? Do this: Click the link below, print this out and read it when you are done Mingling ;-)
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No one likes to receive unsolicited commercial e-mail. On the other hand, you want to be able read e-mail you have asked to receive, or need to receive.
Unfortunately "Spam Filters" can be a bit of a bother, filtering out e-mail you want to receive and allowing e-mail to get through you don't want to receive.
Yahoo, Netscape version 7.0, AOL, MSN and Outlook version 10.0 all provide you with a way to filter your e-mail.
In the case of MSN and AOL, by adjusting your security controls, you can set up your e-mail box so much of your e-mail ends up in your junk mail box. With Yahoo, unless you set up filters, e-mail you are looking for may end up in your bulk mail box.
Unfortunately, when you join a new newsletter using an AOL, Netscape, Hotmail, MSN or Yahoo e-mail address, you may not see the e-mail you are looking for unless you go into your junk mail or bulk mail box.
How can you avoid this problem, while still saving your e-mail box from being bombarded with unwanted e-mail?
One simple way is to add the names and email addresses of people you wish to receive e-mail from to your "safe list" in the case of Hotmail, MSN or AOL; or create a "filter" when using Yahoo or Netscape, ensuring the e-mail you want to read ends up in your Inbox and not in your Junk Mail, Bulk Mail, Delete or Trash Folder.
When you subscribe to "Minglelink.com's mailing list, you will receive a welcome letter, giving you the option of signing up to an auto responder. When you sign up to this auto responder you will receive a series of messages containing information you will find of value to your business, (at least I think so, but then I am biased since I wrote this series) along with ways you can access a number of valuable e-books as gifts.
(Hey, you like gifts, don't you?)
Do you want to make sure you receive your welcome letter, which contains valuable information, receive the series of messages from the auto-responder called "Minglelink.com" and receive regular issues of "Minglelink.com"?
Here is what I suggest depending on which mail server you use:
Yahoo!
To make sure "Minglelink.com" is delivered to your Yahoo Inbox (not the Bulk Mail folder), simply instruct Yahoo to filter it to your Inbox. Here's how:
* First open your Yahoo e-mailbox. On the right hand side of your screen you will see "Mail Options." Left click on this. In the right hand column, under Management left click on "Filters." Then left click on "Add Filter."
* Since this filter concerns receiving mail from the "Minglelink.com" you can call this filter "Minglelink.com". I suggest you type this in as the filter name.
* Underneath the heading "if all of the following rules are true ..." go to the top row labeled "From header." Next to this you will see drop down menu. Make sure to select "contains." Then simply type in these email address: memberspecialist@minglelink.com, support@minglelink.com and amberj@minglelink.com.
* At the bottom, where it says "Move the message to:" simply select Inbox from the pull-down menu. Then left click on the "Add Filter" button at the bottom and you're done.
Hotmail and MSN
Do you use Hotmail or MSN? You can easily ensure "Minglelink" is delivered to your Inbox by adding our "From" address to your "Safe List."
Here's how to do this:
* First open your Hotmail of MSN e-mailbox. On the menu bar running across the top of your inbox you will see an item labeled "Options." It is the second last item to the right. Left click on "Options."
* In the new screen which opens, you will see a heading called "Mail Handling." Go down the page until you come to the item called "Safe List." Left click on this item.
* In the space provided, type in these e-mail address: memberspecialist@minglelink.com, support@minglelink.com and amberj@minglelink.com and then left click on the "Add" button,
When you see the address you entered in the Safe List box, left click on the button "OK." and you're done.
If you're using AOL, you can ensure that "Minglelink.com" is delivered to your Inbox by setting your Mail Controls. Here's how:
* Go to Keyword Mail Controls.
* Select the screen name you are using to receive "Minglelink.com".
* Left Click "Customize Mail Controls For This Screen Name."
For AOL version 7.0: In the section for "exclusion and inclusion parameters", include both of these domains:
* @minglelink.com
* @Pcnality.com
* @Fittogether.net
(As an aside the domains are valid. However, the links are "dead," being set up to confuse robots used by "spammers" to harvest information from web pages.)
For AOL version 8.0: Select "Allow email from all AOL members, email addresses and domains."
* Left click on "Next" until the Save button shows up at the bottom.
* Left click on "Save."
These comments apply to those of you using Netscape version 7.0 or higher. With Netscape, all e-mail ends up in your Inbox, unless you have set up a filter, instructing Netscape's mail server to send messages to another folder.
With Netscape, you can create a filter for all your messages from "Minglelink.com" and organize your mail box by creating a separate mail folder, making it easier for you to read your messages.
To create a filter for messages from "Minglelink.com", left click on the Mail icon you see on the menu bar when you open Netscape as your browser.
When in the Mail window, here is what you do:
* Select the welcome message you received for "Minglelink.com".
* Open the "Message" menu, and choose "Create Filter From Message."
* You will see the "Filter Rules" dialog box. Using "Minglelink.com's email addresses, memberspecialist@minglelink.com, support@minglelink.com and amberj@minglelink.com Netscape will prefill the filter name, the filter matching criteria, and the filter action (Move to folder).
* Either choose your Inbox in which to store the incoming messages from "Minglelink.com" or create a new folder and simply call it "Minglelink.com" (Are you subscribed to a number of e-zines? I suggest you will want to set up a separate folder for each e-zine, making it easier for you to manage your mail box.)
* Left click on "OK" to confirm your settings. Do you see the "Message Filters" dialog box, where you can create, delete, or edit message filters?
* Left click on "OK" in the "Message Filters" dialog box. The filter begins filtering incoming messages "Minglelink.com" as soon as you click OK, sending them either to your Inbox or to a separate box labeled "Minglelink.com"
Microsoft Outlook version 10.0
There are a number of different ways to set up filters with this version of Outlook. However, here is the easiest way:
* Open Outlook. In your Inbox, look for the e-mail message which indicates it is from "Minglelink.com" Left click on this message once.
* Go up to the Navigation menu and point your mouse to Tools. Left click on Tools and a drop down menu will open. Do you see the two arrows pointing downwards? Left click on these. You will see an item called "Organize." Left click on this.
* In your Inbox, you will see a menu with the title "Ways To Organize Inbox." At the top of this menu, you will see "New Folder ..." You want to left click on this.
* A new dialog box will pop up on your screen called "Create New Folder." In the "Name" field simply type in "Minglelink.com" The left click on "Ok." A new pop up will appear asking whether you want to create a short cut on your "Outlook Bar."
* Do you use the Outlook Bar to access the folders in your Inbox? Then left click on "Yes." If not, and you simply left click on "Inbox" to move around, then left click on "No."
* You will notice in your "Ways To Organize Inbox," Outlook has filled in the necessary items, and all you have to do is simply left click on "Create." By doing this you are instructing Outlook to create a new rule, causing the existing message and all future messages from Support or Amber to go into the sub-folder you just created in your Inbox called "Minglelink" That's it.
The next time you receive a message from Support or Amber, Outlook will automatically cause it to go into the mail box called "Minglelink.com" You can then read the message at your pleasure.
Others
Many popular e-mail programs, including older versions of Outlook and Netscape; Outlook Express and Eudora, do not provide a convenient way for you to white-list the people you want to receive e-mail from.
If you're using this sort of e-mail system and you either aren't getting "Minglelink.com" or want to make sure you continue to receive "Minglelink.com" in the future, here is what to do:
* Contact the customer service representative or the Postmaster at the company that provides your e-mail or Internet connection (your ISP). Explain to them that "Minglelink.com" is e-mail that you asked for and value. Ask them if they can white-list"Minglelink.com" They'll probably ask you for some information about us. Here's what to tell them:
* Sending Address: If they ask for our address, give your contact these 3 email address:
memberspecialist@minglelink.com
Amberj@minglelink.com
Support@minglelink.com
* Domain: If they need to know the domain we're mailing from, tell them both of these:
http://minglelink.com
http://pcnality.com
http://fittogether.net
(As an aside, the reference to the domain names and IP address are valid. However, the links are "dead," being set up to confuse robots used by "spammers" which attempt to harvest information from web pages.)
Trusting you found this primer of value and thank you for "white listing" the email address for "Minglelink.com".
Kind regards,
Amber Jackson, Your Member Specialist on MingleLink.com ;)
P.S. You may want to print off this page for future reference. If you have any questions or suggestions for improvement of this primer drop me a note. Cheers, Amber.
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My Profile Edit My Settings To edit your profile settings; all you need to do is click on your "My Profile Setting" link. It is located on every page, at the top right hand side of the page in the header above the upper main navigation bar. From here you may edit you entire profile as you desire as many times as you wish until you are happy. NOTE: Be sure to click the Submit button at the bottom of the Edit Profile Setting page so you can save your new changes. You can change your profile information by clicking on your "My Profile Setting" link. It is located on every page, at the top right hand corner of the page in the header above the upper main navigation bar. From there you need to go to the "About Me" section and change your preferences accordingly. NOTE: Be sure to click the Submit button at the bottom of the Edit Profile Setting page so you can save your About Me Preferences. You can change your profile information by clicking on your "My Profile Setting" link. It is located on every page, at the top right hand corner of the page in the header above the upper main navigation bar. From there you need to go to the "First Date" section and change your preferences accordingly. NOTE: Be sure to click the Submit button at the bottom of the Edit Profile Setting age so you can save your About Me Preferences. Will Do Deal Breaker Bad Habit || Will Do || Deal Breaker: (3 majors:) As you fill out these specific descriptions about yourself, think about how they will effect all your possible potential mates, even your significant life partner if this is what you are looking for. Be Honest and you'll reach your goal(s) and purpose for joining Minglelink.com to begin with. NOTE: On your public profile as well as everyone's you will notice these 3 descriptions in partial text. To view the entire description, click on the either of them located adjacent to the upper Main Photo and to the right, your browser will jump to the bottom of the page where you can read the balance of the answers. Write well, fill it up and watch your matches flood in. Contacting Minglers Contact Me This link is to contact the member who's profile page you are on. We conveniently make it open right when you click on it. Once opened, you may write a pleasant note of interest in the box. Then click 'send message' and a message will be sent to their message center on site, their web mail address and their mobile device. Remember to be courteous and patient. No one like to be hounded like a prisoner. They will respond on their own time if they want, or decline on their own time when they want. Don't stop there, contact as many members as you like! The more you do contact, the sooner you'll find what you are looking for. NOTE: Spell Check your messages using a word editor such as Microsoft Word or the like. A spell checked message gets far greater results J - Happy Mingling! When you click on the 'IM me' link this will send a live notifier to the user above the 'IM me' link. If a person is available at the same time you are online a window will appear where ever the person is on MingleLink. At this point a member will either accept or deny your request. NOTE: This doesn't always mean they do not wish to speak with you, they can be busy otherwise with another member, or just logging in or just about to log off (any reason applies) So don't be discouraged. You can always send them a message using the 'Contact Me' link described above this section (5-a).This will send them a notification to their message center, web email and mobile. The 'IM Me' link is located on the main contact bar beneath every member's main photo and above the thumb pics. Just click to open. This feature is great! 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Features / General My Recent Comments Just below the First Date description on everyone's Public Profile page. This is a great feature to mingle with your friends, peers and possible love connections. You can delete anything foul by going to your Profile Settings/edit comments, and or by contacting Amber our member specialist! NOTE: We encourage you to report nasty, hateful people and comments on your profile and others you may run into. You yourself will stay incognito/no one will know you reported them) ALSO: We encourage you to comment on everyone's profile whether you are a match in interests or not. Why? Because anyone can view anyone on MingleLink and it is quite likely that a great potential friend or lover may just 'bump' into you there and contact you directly from that comment you made on someone else's profile. Go Comment! It's a Great Thing! We're a Free Online Dating Site, and we want to grow really Fast and really big. We want your help to do it! 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Once you invite a friend to a blog; MingleLink will alert the friends list you created via the message center which sends an email, a text message to their cell phone to join in the subject! Click here to blog. These are the cream of the crop as far as your same interests are concerned. This column is designed for you to find possible companions with same interests as you on every single profile page you visit (including your own) � you can click on any thumb picture and go directly to their profile to find out more. Also you can use the scrolling arrows at the top or bottom to see more of like minded people just like you! My Mingles Section My Albums Got photos you want to save and share? When you click on My Albums you will notice anywhere from 1 to 20 photo Thumbs appear to the right. If you click on 1 photo, it will take you to that users Public Photo Album. This section is reserved for your friend's photos. When you Link to another MingleLink Member and they accept you as a friend, their photo will be shown here when they their Friends link is clicked. From these thumb sized photos you can hover and expand to enlarge them or click and go to the user's profile. This Section can be used for various reasons. You can store your private images for your, your friends, family or lovers. No one can view your Private Portfolio without your permission. Permission is granted either directly by you inviting someone and sending them a secret pass code and link to open your portfolio up. From their they will be able to comment, discuss and interact with you and others who you have invited to view them privately. Like Videos? We've partnered with You Tube to bring us high quality dating centric video content to MingleLink.com. You and your Profile page visitors can enjoy videos right here on Minglelink.com. To open the video player � click the My Tubes link - you can click the arrows in the player to view other videos as well and when you are done watching, simply close the video player window by clicking the link at the top of the player. NOTE: Soon you will be able to post and view and share your own videos with your MingleLink friends. Click the Link and blogs posts titles will appear. From there you can click any Blog Title and go directly to their blog to view them. MingleLink is an Interest Matching Machine. Blogging is built in for you to share your passions! Write a blog, write another blog and as many blogs as you like about the stuff you love to do or care about. Then invite a friend or 100 to get opinions. Once you invite a friend to a blog; MingleLink will alert the friends list you created via the message center which sends an email, a text message to their cell phone to join in the subject! Click here to blog. This link opens up the users own personal preference list of Music. You can listen to their music and comment on their choices as well. Sending music to a friend is just as easy - you can click on Send this Tune to a friend and it works just like Send To Friend does. You put their First Name and Email in the box and click send. The recipient can come back to the site, join or log in and that song will be playing when they Mingle In. The events section is to notify friends of certain special or not so special events such as parties, social activities, game times, meetings, news, entertainment and just stuff that you want to show to all who want to listen.
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